Gentlemen, if we were to take a random poll as to what you found sexy for a woman to wear to bed, we are pretty sure we’d get some very decisive answers.
Lingerie. Lace bra and panties. A nightie. Anything from Victoria’s Secret.
On the other hand, if we were to ask you what women found sexy for a man to wear to bed, you would probably be stumped.
And no, you’re old college shirt and basketball shorts do not count as sexy.
So to save you all from embarrassment, we decided to get our group of 4 female advisors together once more and asked them what they thought was sexy for men to wear to bed.
To recap - we have Lisa, a well-travelled, high level executive who works in a multi-national company; Tammy, a part-time model and media executive; Ryelle, a marketing director and designer; and… my wife.
Here’s what they had to say:
Lisa: “Go Shirtless”
Let’s be honest… women like to see their men naked just as much as men like to see their women naked.
But should you want to don something rather than nothing, start here:
While you may want to put some clothes on, I’m a big fan of men having their shirt off at all times.
Whether you go for lounge pants or boxer briefs there is nothing sexier than a man with his shirt off (of course, it helps if you somewhat resemble the men in these pictures):
While I’m a huge fan of black as a color for any occasion (black cars, black clothes, black underwear), I would not be afraid of other colors:
Also important to note, like the clothes you wear out on the town - the clothes you wear at home should fit just as well and underwear is no place to skimp - so look toward your favorite designers or at the very least, quality fabric:
In the end, it all makes you look and feel better, and who doesn’t want that?
Tammy: “NO tighty whities!!!”
Of course I love a man who’s comfortable enough to sleep in his birthday suit, but if he had to wear clothes, then I’d like him to wear boxer briefs to show off his muscular legs and butt.
Lesson here: less is more (and I don’t mean thongs). No shirts and definitely NO tighty whities!!!
Ryelle: “A robe with nothing under is sexy…”
A robe with nothing under is sexy when you’re on a romantic getaway or lounging around on a private yacht, Bond style.
Robes have a sense of mystery and timeless suave. Always choose silk. This natural material screams quality and sexiness. Avoid cotton, fleece or Hefner velvet – they’re too bulky and scream “grandpa”.
For an everyday look, these look great with abs and swimmer’s legs. Physique is everything when trying to pull off the trunk style:
I’ve never been a boxers or briefs type of person. I appreciate smooth lines and the power of Lycra to display the beauty of the human body.
Maybe it was Mark Walhberg or model Boris Kodjoe who influenced the classic Calvin look for me. Choose microfiber fabric in dark colors. The trunk style provides a more modern cut that isn’t too skimpy and isn’t too long that it looks like football uniform spandex shorts.
My Wife: “Pajama Pants.”
In conclusion, we have made the following realizations after writing this article.
- First, we need to get rid of our old basketball shorts as sleepwear.
- Second, boxers or regular briefs are not a good look for sleeping in.
- Finally, we all need to work out to pull these looks off. A lot.